I know I can read him more accurately than anyone else in his life and it scares him sometimes. The last one who was a crush had his Leo sun in my 12th. Where your Venus falls in your partner's chart shows where you bring these energies into their life. Im going through a bunch of Uranus and Pluto square transits right now and I have a very strong feeling this will not survive. I wish you luck in dealing with your guy; maybe it will turn out sweeter than what I went through. was it really necessary to get hurt in a same manner once again after 7 years? I wish I could see your charts so I could have a better picture of this. Will this ever end!?!?? Why this could be happen? Registered: May 2009. posted June 11, 2013 02:39 PM. How does it affect synastry when one partners personal planets land in the others 12th house? They may also help you feel secure and confident when they are around. But what made it all so compelling, is that I REMEMBERED HIM FROM TWO PAST LIVES when we were mates!! And he keeps saying that he feels like he knows me for 100 years, so familiar, and that he just knows I would understand him no metter what. This is a really good match because it brings together romantic partners with similar ideas about how to approach life. I also have my venus on their south node That's exactly what it feels like. How do you think it would play out his Mars in 12th conjunct my Ascendant???. 12th house isnt only secrecy and I rarely see it that way 12th house synastry is beyond limits. Best wishes to you dear, you will find the right one for you, be patient and don't accept anything less! Mine lasted for nearly 3 years amid a ton of torment, aching for his love, trying to understand the hostility, the mental/spiritual abuse, trying to help him .. all SORTS of goodies/1 In the end, it was me that jumped ship; who needs that kind of nonsense in ones life? Are Venus Pluto Contacts In Synastry Problematic? In the synastry between my husband and myself, my Mars and Saturn lands in his 12th house. This Venus might even feel that there's something magnetic in their partner. During the night I could feel his eyes, some times resting on me. Every time I talk to him about something, I feel loved and at peace. I dont think I can give a uniform answer as to how planets behave in the other persons 12th house. Yes I do think that it's a possibility with his Neptune in your 12th its a very intuitive and psychic connection. It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had.. He bitches if i drink too much wine lol. Boy did WE clash, but seemingly there were no 12th House synastries between us. I will try to expand on it in greater detail for ya, so check back:). Glad that its OVER!! At least in a romantic situation, often what happens is that the house person doesn't "feel" or has a hard time seeing the love of the Venus person. Does that sound reasonable with his neptune being in my 12th house? It's true this house can be heavy, it's the house of hospitals, psychotherapist, prisons, too. A recent look at someone else's synastry made me question this placement. so the judging becomes like, omg i am judging myself kind of thing lol I beleive this is mostly for those aware and can face truth/accept themselves however greatly flawed and love themselves. And I discovered that I had a stellium of Sun, mars, Mercury and venus in his twelfth house, while his planets sun, moon, venus, mars, jupiter, neptune where all in my seventh house.His AC opposite's my venus.Our Sun Mutually Aspects Pluto aswell as Moon Mutually Aspects Mars. The 12th house person can annoy Mars because of the lack of immediate action. Him: Cancer sun/moon, Libra rising, Gemini Venus Me: Libra sun, leo moon, Gemini rising , Scorpio Venus. Venus-Pluto Synastry - Conjunct, Square, Trine, Opposite And also my Pluto is trine his Venus. We may still be able to figure it out. I dream of him a lot. Venus in partner's 12th house: This indicates a strong subconscious attraction which can sometimes feel confusing, because there is a lot of fog around emotions. It is spiritual for both people, but sometimes this is why the relationships seem to be so painful if they end. We work well together and it is always professional. Despite their great physical attraction towards each other, the Venus person often feels saturated with mystery and attraction of the 8th house. I find myself questioning him all the time, whether or not I believe him or believe what he says. It ended when I invited him to my fathers birthday and he just couldnt do it (insert childhood issue here). And that he doesn't know what is good for him. If you Love this person, let destiny take its course and have faith in divine/universal timing. I felt I was led to believe they cared for me, and while showering me with attention, long distance no less, never told me they had feelings for someone else they were trying to avoid. Pisces is the sign without boundaries. he still talks with a kind voice which i hate of being him a hypocrite.what does the whole thing means? Good- have found your posting your threads really helpful to me too..trying to suss all this out too! I've also found when we fought and were out of touch, I could feel how upset and rattled he was when he couldn't reach me. I made our synastry. This is the 1st time I've ever felt like I've met my other half.. my soulmate. In re: to the 12th House attractions, not surprisingly, I always attract Gemini natives mostly Lunar Geminis, or those with Gemini strongly paced in their chart; i.e., Mercury, Venus or Mars. I either lied to myself or the other was lying to me and it was very difficult and painful to deal with. From all levels! Mars is a aggressive action oriented planet and again as always it would depend on the individual who is activating your 12th house. Its difficultto tell whats going on here. 12th house synastry is way too murky for me to tangle with. NO THANKS!!! This happens for me with my Neptune in the 1st house I can take in people's feelings, illness or a array of different things that pass through me temporarily. For instance, my Sun and Venus land in the 12th house of my ex/long term best friend. His Venus is trine my Mars. ( also his merc, pluto and uranus are in my 12th). Wow! He shows me he cares with actions and he has told me twice he is in love with me. be on the look out for that cute Pisces man with an Air Moon and a Fire Mars. Where their intention was not to help but to hurt. However, it was my Venus in his h12th. He is much older than me, far better positioned, with flaws, yet a hero to me. I just want to kiss his cheek and heal his wounds. It's probably love bordering on obsession. What I have found in common is that they both were very aggressive, affectionate and attached to me at the beginning, but once after, i state to feel I dont know them or what their true intentions are, and left me somehow insecure and confused. Often, there is a distinct feeling of mistrust in these scenarios, especially on the part of the planet person. Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 I always wonder whether he has feelings for me or not. Elsa tried to warn me, but I couldnt hear. I started with an other guy, who is really good for me and is a good match. Double whammies. I leave, but I always come back after a while. Venus in 12th house Synastry - Lindaland - linda-goodman.com it doesn't work or they don't like me? I am fascinated by them, and the love I feel is otherworldly. Men take longer to grow up emotionally. or I fail? I have recently encountered a gentleman whose Gem Sun, Mercury, Tau Mars and North Node falls in my 12th. Best Marriage Aspects in Synastry [Everything You Need to Know] - Review42 I still dream about them and I wonder if I bother them in their dreams toolol, I have had a short lived adventure with a man back in 2013. I feel like he's not being completely honest with me and himself about how he feels about me. Should I run now?? First of all i think in this case venus is in the 1st house. Disappointments come because we think there is something more even when the person has clearly said there's not. I am an independent person and this is killing me emotionally, physically and psychologically! This is because there are endless ways these things can play. It could be due to different things.. like the planet person is insecure/shy/doesn't wanna show their love in an open way, or just that the house person doesn't "get" the planet person's way of loving. Thinking this would help. I am so swamped with feelings for him all the time, am pretty much obsessed, really, but there are no real connections between us except for in the air. He has trouble verbalizing his feelings but he said he's always been like that. Such a mystical house - offers so much yet sometime so little. I guess the best way I can describe it is as if it's partially a dream. ------------------Air woman. As he has moved on, you must do also. Ive always been madly in love with him, andhe claims he isntbut his actions speak otherwise. It is also present in my relationship. In synastry when people impact this house, there is often sort of confessional that occurs. As somebody with a 10th house stellium, including Mars, Moon, & Venus with Aries on the midheaven-if somebody fails to openly display their feelings for me, I'm gone. I don't mind though. Because people that are confident don't usually like to point out other's weakness's or make them feel bad. If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. Its like the subconscious need to help him grow as a person. Infatuation can't run this deep. and yes check your saturn sometimes saturn can point to what you don't likebut then again it cam be good and make you feel comfortable with someomethats why overall picture of synastry is so important!!!!! I, like YOU much prefer the beneficial planets:), I have someone venus conjunct my pluto in my 12th house . You must be open and not make assumptions. I dont have other words for that. An at one point he came to me, looked me in the eyesand asked me: " do I know you?" Your not crazy 12th house connections can stick to your bones. Thats so commendable of you to always have a welcome for him in your heart. Same thingsso magnetiche is plutonian, and his pluto trine my moon and sextile my venus and semisextile my sun. Venus determines the way you approach relationships, romance, and love. Synastry: Venus in the 12th house : r/astrology - reddit Hes a vampire and hes not worth it. When we are having a nightmare we have to face immense fears. There are times I don't trust him - through no actual fault of his own, btw - and others where I just feel loved in the most basic way. The 12th House!! Who knows! From the start. Specific to you, the overlay situation might have some play here, but my guess is that theres more to this story. Am THANKFUL that it finally ended, but at the same time I value the lessons learned from our dance. In future, i'll try to do some research about this mysterious house according to my religion. At least I know I'm not the only one who is going through this. And I do, I don't ever want to judge or criticize him. Mars in the 3rd house overlay: This position for Mars in synastry, much like the 1st house position, can be very stimulating in either a positive or negative way.On the one hand, this position can stimulate a lot of invigorating conversation between the two, and the house person can appreciate how vocal and confident the Mars person is in their speech. The 12th house person often has difficulty seeing the true nature of the planet and in the extreme this person might actually encourage you to become your own worst enemy. Too late I realized that I loved him unconditionally. What activity do you have going on between your S.O. Nonetheless it offers us the opportunity to heal karma, overcome our fears, uncover hidden talents and gifts, and to truly see the mystical, magical spiritual world. You are BLESSED!! As if something beyond ourself is guiding us.what is this shit, ive been asking me many many timesand is there a way to get over this?? It is a great placement in synastry, of course depending on other aspects to the degree. Except when one of us is going through any kind of emotional crisis, then we're pretty physically demonstrative. Best wishes to you darling and thank you for sharing your story :), I just read the previous 12th house story and the aspects are nearly the same as with the guy I am seeing. Lesson learned: let the men pick ME instead of the other way around. My sun, mercury, Venus and Jupiter conjunct his Pluto in the 12th. Love you, Elsa many thanks for this wonderful forum! He has sun conjunct saturn and he also has it with me in synastry as well as my daughter. It is strange how much this makes sense: I have my moon in his 12 house and he's got his Neptune in my 12. Venus in Twelfth House Meaning in Synastry When someone's Venus falls in another person's twelfth house, the planet person acts as a magical entity that activates the house person's imagination and inspires subconscious romantic feelings. So the conversations might be heavy and deep, or they are at least exposing of one whether good or bad. Explore the synastry between you and your partner Composite Chart / Synastry Report Bundle. In this relationship, you tend to agree to a no-obligation arrangement from the start. Sign up here! The relationship functions mostly on an unconscious level and there is often much misunderstood or misinterpreted if you arent very clear in your speaking with each other. In a way you don't care for.Look at your Sun & Saturn since that represents the father as well, with the way you feel look for afflictions. My gemini sun, cancer north node are in my 12th. His moon fall in my 5th house. I really felt that I WAS him that is, until he started bashing me mentally and spiritually. This is a very private house, and it holds all of our self conscious fears, most of the time we don't like this house activated especially if this is a person that will use this against us.If the Mars person is selfish and self-serving, he or she may use their knowledge of your bad habits, blind spots and personality weaknesses to manipulate or hurt you. Venus Synastry in the Houses - Pathstrology It means he needs to work through then and the only way to do this is to, effectively lie to you, so he can havevtgecspace he needs to work through his issues. thus I didnt want to be like him. does the planet that falls in your 12th aspect anything else in your chart? He acts like hes in love with me, he acts like he cares deeply for me, hes there for me and has even held me while I cried. I feel lost a lot of the time, but feel even more lost and dead inside whenever I walk away from him, but I never stay gone for too long, even though I claim I will never come back. Can someone help shed some light to what it means? Do you mind posting a synastry? He was everything I wanted from a man, he broke all my barriers, and he was what I want to become as we run in more or less same line of business. Venus-Uranus in Synastry May 10, 2013 astrologyplace Those with Venus conjunct, square, or opposite Uranus in Synastry create exciting sparks in relationships. Oh . Well, your handle actually matches his Cancer placements, as the Keywords for Cancer is I FEEL, and that is the key to him. He told me he loved me so many times and then took it back, and he told me there are things he needs to work through. I've noticed a few times I have had this placement with somone I care very deeply about, but for some reason the feelings are never mutual. Yes i do believe it possible to work even if you have not physically met as crazy as that sounds, my experience with this house has shown it to be a very magical house, that has roots in the past. The same potential is there with composite charts and a lot of 12th house emphasis. Jupiter i Mars is aggressive by nature but the sign and house, and aspects made to him will alter how he plays out in synastry. This is all the 12th house stuff, and why dreams can be healing and why this house can offer us healing. I find myself wondering if it's happening because maybe I am picking up on him obsessing about it. Yah, that 12th House synastry . ILLUME ASTROLOGY: SYNASTRY: VENUS IN THE HOUSES - Blogger Very confusing . I'm not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highlypsychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. Its possible the blind spot is yours, not his. What's weird to me is that I can't decide if he's intentionally obscuring himself or if it is unintentional based on the nature of his personality. Lot's of non-verbal communicating. The 12th house is highly psychic and deeply spiritual. We have our moons in each others first houses which for my cancer stellium does a lot, and he has mars and venus in my 7th house. Or it can bring us confusion, misunderstandings, enhance our fears, and sometimes scare our darn pants off like when were having a nightmare. Just cant get past my Gemini obsessions, I guess. Im more of a silent reader but this one hit home, so I ll share my two cents. Thanks Zahara, what you say makes sense. maybe it was some inner knowledge of how he is deep inside. Ill blink and its 1am. When wondering around in someones 12th or they in yours? I have Jupiter sun and mars in his 12th house in cancer and I really hope I didnt hurt him. Pretty much text book situation. I know the Pluto-Moon opposition would usually involve some obsession but not sure about the Pluto-Saturn conjunct opposing moon. My Sun, Jupiter, and Mercury are in Gemini and fall in his 12th house. Venus Synastry: 12th House Overlay in Astrology - ASTROFIX Sign up for my free newsletter offering astrology forecasts, tips and tricks! Venus trine Pluto, sun and Saturn trine. Ironically, your experience sounds much like my own, excepting my 12th Houser turned mean and abusive, even though I was ARMS OPEN to him at all times. I feel you, kak.. Im the planet person, in which im the venus, he's the house person. i, how ever, have only dreamt of someone who has moon in my 12th .the other person i have dreamt of has nothing in my 12th. A Venus in the 12th House man is a sweet, gentle, kind of person who likes to help both people and animals. I also faced this same situation from my present crush whom he married with the woman same as my first ex BF criteria. Most sources will tell you that the twelfth house overlay is not good for relationships. My ex and I had our suns in each others 12th. You need to be clear in areas such as this, find out why you met this person or they you? JavaScript is disabled. I trust everything happens for a reason! It's all about 12th house. I just recently met someone by accident online (a learning site.) He seem to know all about me even i don't tell or exposed my darkest psyche to him. what a selfish!so far i have involved in guys where my venus lied in their twelve house, it was love but felt like hidden agenda, holly crap! The 12th house also has deep connections with dreaming, rest, and introspection. Possibly. His mars is in my 12th house. How would Saturn and Mars play out in 12the in synastry?? Horoscope, dating, astrology, forecast, relationships | 12andus Hi thank you for visiting! I ran into him the other day out of the blue and he said hi but it was too painful for me to even confront him and I was so mad for so long. Venus in the 12 th House The Venus person functions in a manner that increases the House person's self-confidence. His Venus is also conjunct my Pluto and we also have Venus square Venus. But when I'm around him, it's like a physical stalemate. I can only state that my 12th Houser ended up pretty much devastating me perhaps it was because of his Sun/Gemini in my 12th House and my Vwnus/Sag in his 12th House. Sounds like your experience was on the negative side. Venus-Uranus in Synastry - The Astrology Place I know it sounds crazy. We also have vertex conjuct Asc. So strange in this 12th house. Also with another friend who showed interest and I really just wanted to remain on a friend basis. And if they are thus planted in your 12th House, soon the fun begins with you feeling like you were run over by a truck or a fast-moving train. I am very partnered elsewhere in my life but looked up his chart because he feels like family or someone i knew in a past life or something. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. Required fields are marked *. I'm very new here so read at your own risk! It's strange that i always dream about him. It's as if its a fairytale, make belive love and Im in a dream. Posts: 45239From: Saturn next to CharmainecRegistered: Apr 2009, He tries to act like he's not the jealous type but he is. Your Venus in Your Partner's Houses Truly Divine My TWIN SIDE also is grateful, but is now more underground, and that may actually be a blessing, as I also began to mirror his BAD actions and ill temperaments. Well you can imagine how the proposition to be his off-time mistress set with my Midhaven in Aries. Ha interesting this 12th house isn't it? The only thing is boundaries, extremely psychic and and very empathetic which makes it very hard to set boundaries with a double whammy especially involving Neptune or the 12th house. because it hurts to know this about yourself, or just accept it. The comments here suggest that he could be affected, but I noticed that in these cases the planet person fell into the house person's 12th, but the house person's planets also fell into their intense houses (1st, 7th, 5th, etc).I have north node in his 12th, but nothing else falls into his 12th. Maybe we should all listen to our inner voices; intuitively we always KNOW who is bad or good. I feel like we are very secretive together though like we are very codependent on one another and thats really it ..so far .. He indeed often told me that we do have a strong connection. As a matter of fact it's very difficult to word. could you explain in detail why this weird connection happens in this 12th house? Without remorse, without emotional pain, without what ifs. With the Unaspected Venus, the sensibilities would be similar to Oscar and Felix in the Odd Couple. Never felt this way in my life. Hanging onto him and wishing for return engagements may bring you much heartache, and even loss he might be a sociopath and if that is how he rolls you could lose much in the ways of material goods. You are using an out of date browser. Plus we both have gemini suns. Conjunct Venus' are often found in long term relationships. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 November 9, 2012 astrologyanonymous27 5 Comments. Leave no traces where you can be found, as these BAD 12th-Housers seem to be emotional vampires, and thus really get off on feeding off of YOU, your fears and trepidation. I love him, he opens me up to questions I would never put a name to but a part of me just wants to run away where he cant find me. He could communicate with my soul because he could explained my secret desire without boundaries.I had erotic dreams about him a lot. If a person is open to the supernatural, this would be a positive thing to see in an overlay. The house person will feel good with the Venus person and they will share a psychic connection that is quite powerful. I can definitely feel the effects of his planets in my 12th, but in your experience is the planet person affected? Please also note that having Venus in the 12th means very little without a lot of context.